Helping success-driven women in midlife break free from self-doubt and self-sabotage so they can lead with confidence in business and life.
You’ve built a successful life — but self-doubt, overthinking, or people-pleasing keep getting in the way.
I help you rewire unconscious patterns so confidence becomes natural, not forced.
You’re In The Right Place If…
You’ve achieved a lot in your life or business — yet still feel stuck, frustrated, or held back in ways you can’t logically explain.
You notice patterns like procrastination, self-doubt, people-pleasing, or overthinking that keep resurfacing no matter how hard you try to “fix” them.
You’re tired of pushing, forcing, or mindset-hacking your way forward — and it’s just not working anymore.
You sense the issue isn’t a lack of discipline or strategy… something deeper is running the show.
You’re ready for clarity, confidence, and change that actually sticks.
If this resonates, nothing is “wrong” with you — you’re responding from unconscious patterns that can be rewired.
Why Pushing Harder Doesn't Work
Most women try to solve these challenges by working harder, being more disciplined, or changing their strategy.
But when patterns like self-doubt, procrastination, or people-pleasing repeat, the issue isn’t effort — it’s unconscious programming.
Your mind is designed to keep you safe, not successful. And when old beliefs or emotional patterns are running beneath the surface, they override logic and intention every time.
Once you understand what’s actually driving your behavior, change becomes easier — and sustainable.
12+
Years of Experience
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Mentored
How Real Change Happens
Real, lasting change doesn’t come from pushing harder or fixing surface behaviors.
It happens when you work with the part of the mind that’s been quietly running the show all along.
1. Awareness — The Relief Stage
We start by uncovering the unconscious beliefs, emotional patterns, and internal responses that drive self-doubt, procrastination, and people-pleasing.
What this creates:
• Immediate clarity
• Relief from self-blame
• A deep understanding of why you’ve been stuck
2. Rewiring — The Confidence Shift
Once the pattern is visible, we interrupt it. Using subconscious and NLP-based tools, we replace old programming with new, aligned responses that support confidence, clarity, and self-trust.
What this creates:
• Less overthinking and inner resistance
• Calm, confident decision-making
• Emotional responses that feel supportive instead of sabotaging
3. Integration — The New Normal
This is where change becomes sustainable. You begin showing up differently — not because you’re trying to, but because your internal wiring has shifted.
What this creates:
• Stronger boundaries without guilt
• Consistent follow-through
• Confidence that feels natural and grounded
This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about updating the internal patterns that no longer fit who you are now — so growth feels aligned instead of exhausting.
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One focused session to uncover what’s really holding you back — and what to do next.
The Advanced Awareness Method
Awareness & Pattern Identification
We uncover the unconscious beliefs, emotional patterns, and self-sabotaging behaviors that are quietly running your decisions — especially in leadership, confidence, and visibility.
Outcome:
✔ Clarity around why you feel stuck
✔ Relief from self-blame (“It’s not a discipline problem”)
✔ Immediate mindset shifts
Rewire the Self-Sabotage Loop
Using NLP-based mindset tools and subconscious reprogramming, we interrupt old patterns like overthinking, people-pleasing, and self-doubt — and replace them with aligned, empowered responses.
Outcome:
✔ Reduced anxiety and mental noise
✔ Stronger internal decision-making
✔ Confidence without forcing or “faking it”
Integration & Confident Action
This is where confidence becomes your new normal. You practice showing up differently — in business, leadership, relationships, and boundaries — with support and accountability.
Outcome:
✔ Clear boundaries without guilt
✔ Consistent follow-through
✔ Confidence that lasts beyond the program
Happy Clients
Read what clients have to say about me
Thank you Lori for the fantastic life changing experience, Lori’s ability is absolutely amazing, and her personalized coaching approach made the experience enjoyable while impactful in such a short period of time. I now have the confidence and the best tools to continue to improve my personal and professional lifestyle.
Jen Chapman
Lori has helped me in so many ways. If your looking to get rid of limiting and sabotaging beliefs they will help you crush them for good. If you need help in your business with time management etc they can bring you through it. They are professional, caring coaches. If you are willing to do the work they are there by your side. Don’t let another day go by being stuck. Reach out to Jacklyn coaching. We all have one life to live and we should live it with passion.
Julie Potvin
A place of care and communication tools to I help navigate through life. I am grateful for the service and support. It has changed my life for the better. 💯
Christine Iacono
FAQs
Find answers to commonly asked questions about and our services.
What is NLP coaching?
NLP coaching is a collaborative process that helps individuals identify and achieve their goals, overcome obstacles, and improve their overall well-being.
How long does coaching last?
The duration of coaching varies depending on individual needs and goals. It can range from 2 Sessions to several months.
What are the benefits of coaching?
Coaching can help you gain self-awareness, improve your mindset, enhance your communication skills, and achieve personal growth and productivity.
Coaching also helps create a deep sense of peace and personal satisfaction.
How much does coaching cost?
The cost of coaching varies depending on the needs and outcomes of the client. Contact us for more information.
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